Charis

‘’I was raped 5 times.’’
‘’ I got pregnant at 16 and aborted it.’’
‘’I have more than 70 body counts.’’
‘’I slept with an average of 5–6 men in a year.’’
‘’I grew up smoking as a teenager. It was easy peasy.’’

Sex for her was for pleasure, without any attachment to the sexual partner.
No strings.
Whenever she needs to sleep with a guy,
She knows how to position herself for visibility
She does it flawlessly, and the guys wouldn’t know that they were victims of her gimmicks.
They would soon come running to her,
Desiring to pull the endearing front mountains out and pant after her red sea under the skirt.
It was what she lived for
She would have sex tens of times in a year, sometimes it could be a one-off thing.
When she is not enjoying the sex, she cuts off the relationship.
She could maintain four sexual partners all at once.

‘’It all started when I was a child.
There was a house in the neighbourhood where all the children would go and watch movies.
As usual, I went to the house that had become a meeting zone for everyone.
One of the guys in the house started touching me
I was a child
I could not understand what was going on
After touching me for a while,
He brought out his drogba to penetrate
He tried to force his way in, but it was not working.
I was a child.
He was big.
I left for my house that day but as a child, I don’t know what I should make of it.’’

It was a seed that would backfire in the future.
That was the first of many as a child
Few adults in the street tried to touch her and have their way.
At the time, she understood it was not to her benefit, so she kept her distance from them.
She grew up into a teenager and wanted to have a feel of the world.
She is a big girl anyway
She had her first sex
It was a painful experience, with blood all over.
That didn’t stop her adventure in any way.
She maintained multiple partners even as a boarding student
She attended a girls’ only Federal School
It was there she learned that sex cannot only happen between the opposite sex but also between the same sex.
She dated a couple of ladies
That was a different world on its own.

An incident happened when he gained admission into the university
It opened the door to one of the rape cases.
She lost her school fees
She was afraid to call home
She devised a plan to get herself through her craft
It was a time when the son of the Police Commissioner in her state asked her out
She left school for his house
He had been asking her out but She wouldn’t give in to him
But she needed money and felt She could get it from him
She met her in his father’s house.
He went berserk on her
She struggled, but he overpowered her.
She wanted to leave but his father came back home from work
The father must not know that his son brought a girl to the house
Security men attached to his father took their formation and there would be no hiding place for anything or anyone
So she was locked with him for the rest of the night
He attempted to have sex with her again during the night
She clearly told him she was going to break his head with anything she could find
He left and never made an attempt on her again
She left the house the following morning without her school fees
She was back to ground zero
She left the house, raped
Spent money
And walked out empty.
She had no option
She resorted to informing her mum and she gave her the full money
It was the first step she should have taken and it would have saved her from troubles.

Her adventure had taken her to meet different people from different walks of life
From politicians who would give her hard currencies to executives in big companies who are interested in child chicks.
She was a travelling companion for one for a while
Whenever she feels like ending things,
She calls it off without batting an eye.

She’s had alterations with housewives whose husbands made her side chics
There was one of them who felt she could never compete with her
It was a terrible situation to be in as a wife
She called her and begged.
She had to rethink.
She called the husband and told him off.
She found the husband to be a safe place and vice versa
But he was married, and she wouldn’t want to be in the position of his wife.

What about drugs?
‘’I once took a drug
It is a mixture of all the hard drugs found on the street
‘’I was with a company in Lagos; I took it and I went on a sex rampage for several hours.’’
Smoking came naturally to her
She watched her father smoke while growing up
It was not a big deal.
When she got to Fela’s shrine,
She fitted in as gloves fit into the hand.

She moved to a new city to start afresh.
It was like an aura
She started drawing men
The city will not sit still until the men get into bed with her
The men came from all backgrounds and religions.
It does not matter if they were in the church or mosque in the morning
They would find their way into her bed later in the day.

In the middle of a chaotic lifestyle
She slept and had a vision
She found herself in a suspended space
She saw two beings standing and a voice speaking to them
‘’It is time to go the earth and do your assignment’’
The beings took the order and dived into the earth.
She was there as they transited.
Then, she saw them hitting everywhere, and it would start burning.
She felt the impact of their actions on her body as the fire burned the places
She woke up with a desire for God.
She knew the time was up to give up her life to Him.
She gave her life to God
She found a church and walked in
But she was not satisfied
She wanted more
She wanted to be filled with the Holy Ghost
She saw many people talking about the Holy Spirit.
She saw a link from a reposted post on X
It was a thread from Paul
She decided to log in one day and check their activities.
She sent a message.
“How do I get baptized by the Holy Spirit?”
She got filled with the Holy Ghost
She attended a foundational class.
She proceeded to the advanced class.
She is learning Christ and doing well in Him.
She is now a life-giving Spirit
A new man
Born of the Spirit
Born of God
A progenitor of the divine being

‘’16 Therefore, from now on, we regard no one according to the flesh. Even though we have known Christ according to the flesh, yet now we know Him thus no longer. 17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. 18 Now all things are of God, who has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation, 19 that is, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not imputing their trespasses to them, and has committed to us the word of reconciliation.

PS: some people believe that when you come into Christ, you deserve to reap the rewards of everything you have sown outside of Christ. For example, an ex-baddie should not marry a son of God. One who has aborted 5–20 pregnancies does not deserve a good life nor should she have children in marriage. That is laughable. Coming into Christ absorbs your past, present and future. It absolves you of blame and guilt. It absorbs you of pain and regret. It opens a new chapter for you.
Whilst she was shaken while sharing her experience with me, she settled in and laughed about it. She has a new life now, Zoe. A life that saves to the uppermost and literally rewrites your story.

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